Women are most attracted to these six things in men:

1) Means (Wealth, possessions, gifts to them or providing for them)
2) Power (Influence, Leadership, provide safety)
3) Fame
4) Looks (Including height)
5) Exclusivity (Royalty, already married, hard to get)
6) Personality (Humor, creativity, romance, intelligence, mystique etc.)

Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you’re not rich, you’re probably not going to get rich this week. If you’re not famous or tall, you’re probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 6 inches in the next 24 hours.

So that leaves us with number six, PERSONALITY.

The good news is that your personality is your greatest asset in the success-with-women game. Fortunately, it’s the one thing you can change. And it’s the one thing that can overcome all of the rest. After you’ve done what you can to look your best, etc. you have to develop a personality that’s absolutely magnetic.

The one quality that attracts women the most (and keeps them attracted) is not something that they can initially ‘look’ for. It’s the way they FEEL when they are with you or thinking of you. In the end, if you don’t have wealth, power, fame, or looks you’re going to have to use your personality to make them feel good. In the end, your personality is the most powerful weapon you have.

Most often a man thinks that a woman doesn’t like him because of the other 5 reasons. You’ll often hear a guy cribbing, “I guess she thinks I don’t look so good” or “She just wants a rich guy”. Well, it’s not quite so. That’s just a convenient way of convincing oneself for not being good enough to impress the girl you wanted to.

So as I said before, it’s really your personality which matters the most. The quality which makes your lady feel good about you. The introduction of this post tells about the six things that attract women, but these don’t necessarily keep your lady attracted to you. It’s got to be something about you that makes her feel good, and if you really care, that’s what you must work on rather than bothering about the other reasons.

Cheers.